So can anyone help me out?

if i was in your place i'd help her! 'cause when someone really NEEDS me i can't let them down it's kinda part of the OCD i think i have, so i don't really have any advice but i'll tell you this: you need to figure out how much you can take, 'cause it wont do anybody any good if you start to break down too! if you do who's gonna save you? and her too? sorry if this didn't help :( i hope it gets Better! :)